How to Stop Being The Side Chick & Make Him Chase + Fan Questions Video Mp3 indir

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  • Published on Mar 14, 2017

  • How to avoid being the side chick Purchase my course "The Psychological Game of Attraction": https://dalexis-school.thinkific.com WORK WITH ME 1-1: https://mindfulattraction.org/inner-g... Purchase seminars & books: https://mindfulattraction.org/new-pro... JOIN MY FB GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mindf... Follow me on twitter for updates: Twitter.com/dalexispe Follow me on instagram: @dalexisp In order not to be a side chick you have to know his situation. If he has a girlfriend and he's asking you out, he might be using you as a distraction, as a source of entertainment on the side. So he may just want variety and attention from women. Men need validation, so he might be using you to fill in the gaps. Or he may just want sex. So these are the steps to not end up like a side chick 1. Make sure if he has a girlfriend 2. Avoid meeting straight to his house. Avoid meeting straight for sex 3.side him first. Make him the side boy first. Now you're the one taking command on the relationship. So be more unavailable, and be busier. 4. Gives him limits and barriers. Say that you're only able to meet on certain times and certain places. He'll cherish your time with you. 5. Reward him with physical attention and verbal praise whenever he does anything you want him to display. Also punish bad behavior with no response. Ignore negative behavior and reward good behavior by removing your verbal and physical praise. Be less recpetive, and lengthen your time of response during text messages. He's going to notice the difference and since it's subtle, it's going to change him over the long run. 6. Don't try to convince him to get out of the side chick. It shows neediness 7. Be okay with your role. Sometimes because you seem so happy that you're the side chick that he's going to wonder why you don't want something more with him.


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  • Selina ten Kate
    Selina ten Kate 1 year ago

    Why do men stay with his girl when they are not happy in the relationship, thats so weird..

  • Jamie Sommer
    Jamie Sommer 2 years ago

    I have a juicy story to tell and what Alex has to say works like a charm... you have to be patient and know when to react and when to be silent. "Act like a cat".

  • Cool Chicka Vlogs
    Cool Chicka Vlogs 2 years ago

    If a guy takes 2 days to text me back, I'm out. Usually guys text me back several times a day. I make sure our conversations are interesting. If a guy takes 2 days to respond and he's a boring texter and conversationalist, I'm cutting him off

  • Gina C
    Gina C 2 years ago

    Very interesting...  'When you place limits on people, things become more valuable'.  True.

  • Destiny Raine
    Destiny Raine 1 year ago (edited)

    I invest just as much time he invest in me. If he text me a simple "hey", I'm texting back a simple hey. If he takes hours to respond to a text I've sent him well, yep you guessed it, my response with be the same. I have no time for games....

  • Ms3Tee
    Ms3Tee 2 years ago

    Orrrr stop being a b*atch and don't date a guy who already has a GF.

  • B N
    B N 2 years ago

    you are so funny ......." muthaf@&$kers don't put a heart emoji for nothin" LMAO.......

  • Gabrielle Otshudy
    Gabrielle Otshudy 2 years ago

    This Chanel is God's sent!! Thank you for sharing all this Alex.

  • Natalie Lockhart
    Natalie Lockhart 1 year ago

    you're fineee 😍 & that smile kills me

  • willfade 79
    willfade 79 6 months ago

    Know your worth ladies. Never let a guy get comfortable disrespecting you or treating you like a "side chick." Know what you want. Be clear about it and never chase the guy. Once you have value in yourself, the right guys will gravitate towards you. If you have to chase him more than he's chasing you, back off. Go no contact. Set a goal for yourself (one week of no contact, for example) and see what he does. If he contacts you within a week, you'll know he cares. Good luck and remember to love yourself. You deserve a guy who will treat you right and the right guy is well worth waiting for. Happy almost 2019 all.

  • LibraLady nior
    LibraLady nior 2 years ago

    You are awesome!! Thank you soooo much you've opened my eyes ,and reconditioned my thoughts ...if no one told you ,I'm telling you ..I appreciate you!!!!

  • Castelle Dream
    Castelle Dream 2 years ago

    Not many people go deep into the subject as you do and the way that you do it is really helpful.

  • Elizabeth Reyes
    Elizabeth Reyes 1 year ago

    Yooooooooooooooooo but like who are you ????You give the best advice ! And you’re hilarious ❤️ “When a girl doesn’t want to be kissed they don’t give you the cheek” lmaooooo they back the hell up hahaha

  • tasnim taas
    tasnim taas 2 years ago

    OMG you responded, forget about him i'm in love with you now x) lol thaank's

  • skorpia g
    skorpia g 2 years ago

    im so sick of stupid chics going to compete for a guy thats so disrespectful towards them. your not in competition. the guy will only do it again!! good grief://

  • Marina Avant
    Marina Avant 10 months ago

    What if he dont tell you he has a gf

  • Shalee Williams
    Shalee Williams 1 year ago

    i think i found my husband 😍😍😍 alex you are amazing

  • Gretchen Burgess
    Gretchen Burgess 10 months ago (edited)

    I've been having some "fun" with a guy for a few months, at the time we were not seeing other people. We both agreed to telling the other when our "fun time" together was over. However, he updated his status to " in a relationship "with his baby mama , at the beginning of August, yet he has come over and been with me since. I just saw it, what the hell do I do?

  • Kimberly Herrera
    Kimberly Herrera 2 years ago

    Best coach, ever! thanks for your time❤. How do you know all this??!...you are so young!...I want to see the 40 year old you...sooo sexy and intelligent, hehe